"xDo I apologize to W for my mother? or do I just pretend I didn't see it?"
No you shouldn't apologize to your W, but you should apologize to your mother. She was only doing what she felt was right and you'd do the same for your kids. She's doing it because she loves both you and your W. If your W makes a big deal about it, tell her just that and end it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.