Ready for some forum help

[MrBond]

"Wife is an introverted over thinker. I had no complaints really, that I can recall...thus my grasping at any little thing to understand."

I wasn't asking about YOUR complaints. I was asking about hers. There must have been something that she complained about. Even if they were small comments here and there. To her they were probably big issues but was too afraid to bring them up for whatever reason.