Mr. Bond, may I call you james? Wife is an introverted over thinker. I had no complaints really, that I can recall...thus my grasping at any little thing to understand. My therapist said it is like a blindfolded drunk man playing darts...trying any direction any method to get the target. Interactions now, other than the call to her last week to be present and that she was being cold? Now things are fine. No R talk, no physical anything. I do not call on the way home as I have since day one. Stopped that last week. This was the last thing on my 180 list. Something I used to do and no longer do. She has to ask if she wants to know something. I listen twice as much as I talk. I am pleasant and secretly in love I do give her compliments, as I always have, but limit it to only ONE per day. I do not go for hugs, but do touch and smile a lot. Hope that explains it. I am pouring it all out on the table here. Thanks
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
