I agree with you GB. I just don't know how to make it happen. I will move my money when I get paid ( nothing left now) so he cannot touch it. I have no doubt however that I will be continuing to cover all household expenses while he "plays" with his money.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15