Every WAS fears that the marriage they left, in which they were very Unhappy, will return if they return.

IOW, your w fears that you will revert to your old self as soon as she gives OM up.

consistent change + sufficient time = change she can believe in.


You have to give it time, & you have to be consistent, and you've done neither.

So look at the title of your thread and get back to YOU.

What are your 180s? What are your GAL?

You cannot detach without GAL, and we hammer the GAL for one reason only....

it works.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change