Hi I'm new, I hope I won't be a burden... prt 4

[MrBond]

"Because its revealing and slutty. Yeah clothes that reveal cleavage. I dont like em because they are revealing and slutty.. who she trynna impress?"

I guess my W is slutty because she wears shorts. Thanks for saying that.

In fact, I like it when she wears shorts because it shows off her legs and shows the other guys what they can't have.

Get over it. You're sounding like the @$$hole again. You never listened to what she wanted you to change. Why do you want to control her? What are you, her father?

"@ mrbond - i have changed trust me i have."

In what way? C'mon be honest. What "lifelong" change that you were promising and praying would happen if your W would just come back, have you actually put into place? You are still the immature kid that came on the boards crying.

"But i just feel its unfair. And some things she should listen to me about.. im her husband.. im sure theres women out there that always listen to their husband.. "

No. There are women out there who "respect" their H. You don't respect her so she doesn't respect you.

"this bitch dont even respect me or my wishes.."

Calling your W a bitch isn't exactly being respectful. Hey, I know, why don't you go and get a D and then go out with someone else, start calling them a bitch and you'll always have their love.

"I think i got married to young..."

BS. There's no such thing. I know MANY men (and note, I said men) who are much more responsible than you and who are much younger. If you think you're a man, then start acting like one.

"i havnt grown up yet.. "

Bingo. Actually, this is a choice. You just don't want to grow up. You want to hang out at the gym, play video games all day, call your W a bitch, have sex with her whenever you want, not let her have friends who are real men (because you can't amount to it), and oh yeah, not let her wear shorts.

Did I miss anything?

"i dont want to accept these things they piss me off... "

You have control issues. And I notice you never followed through on going to counseling or getting help for yourself like you promised over and over and over again. Now that she's back in your life, you think you're the one in the driver's seat now. You're not.