KGirl - post-move

[KGirl]

I ended up having to get more info from H because even though I was applying individually, it still asked for his SS#, income, etc. because the loan is based on both our income. =| Grr.

Then he sent me a text tonight saying he'd be out of town until Sunday so I could come pick up a few things he found of mine if I wanted. I can see that he's trying to be considerate in that I may not want to see him. But I instantly got this sick feeling in my stomach when he said he'd be going out of town. I thought I'd be over feeling this way by now, but the thoughts of "where's he going? what's he doing? how might it hurt me, whatever it is?" still come up. It's hard for me to just let them go as silly or just stories because they could very well be true (he could be doing something like hooking up with someone or getting another DUI or who knows what.) Does anyone have any good coping strategies for things like this? It's easier when I just know nothing, but I don't think telling him "please don't tell me when you're going out of town" is the best way to approach it...