W came out to my office and cried and said " so is his how it's gonna be" ? I asked what she meant and she said what are we doing? I told her that she made the decision to be separate under one roof and that I was giving her space. She cried and said she didn't like it and did not know where to go from here. I told her that I was simply respecting her request for space and offered nothing else. She went into the house and was sobbing terrible as I walked through the house to go to the bedroom. She asked me why I did not want to include her in dinner plans I had with the kids and I just said I am not putting on a public show... I again said I respect your request to be left alone and she went into a sobbing tirade about not knowing how to fix us. She talked about lack of sexual satisfaction in the past and asked me how we can fix that and the marriage. I just told her she has to want to fix it first.. Very civilized talk.. She went in bedroom and sobbed loudly as kids and I went to get into car. My S asked what I said to upset mom and I said nothing and S asked if mom could go with to dinner. I went back in and asked her to go with to make the kids happy.. We had a nice dinner... Kids are going away tonite with neighbors... My plans are to go to my room in basement and read.
