Just stating some progress on my part because this is hard... H is home from work today looking at places to move into. when he told me he was meeting with the real estate agent I didn't cringe or feel that stabbing pain in my chest wanting to do everything in my power to stop him. I just said, "Ok, hope it goes well". It feels like such a mixed signal. Ugh!
ALSO, he said in passing this morning that he would pick up D from camp and take her to karate. I haven't reminded him or nagged him about her not having her stuff (her karate belt is in my car) and I noticed her karate stuff is still in a bag by the front door. This is very BIG for me. To let it go and trust that he can do these things without my criticism or nagging. AND, I haven't checked the GPS app on my phone to see if he's on his way to pick up D or if he forgot. See? Baby steps. He said he had it and I'm letting him have it. This is no small feat for me so I'm putting out my fist for some bumps! Come on! Give a girl an accolade!!!
