First post, confused

[asat82]

So I talked to my wife today because I am expecting some very important mail, I texted her to see if it was there. She called me back and said they haven't seen it. Thing is she asked me what I was doing tomorrow. I told her there was a party for someone at work which Im going to tomorrow night (which is true of course), but she told me to call her tomorrow to talk about something.

So I am fairly she flew to visit the OM over this past weekend and think the conversation could be about that. I know I shouldn't dig into this, but I think I need to make a stand for myself about this issue no matter what tomorrow. I feel like I have been just sitting by, and I need to do this to stand up for myself. Not only do I feel better when I do this, but she respects it also. I want to let her know that I feel disrespected and do not wish to remain in an open marriage, and I don't want a divorce, but I will not be disrespected anymore... what to do...