WAW having an A but she denies it #2

[25yearsmlc]

Starsky there's nothing to be insulted by in my post, vis a vis you.

Come on, I think we both know that. (But no, I don't want to debate it).

I specifically mentioned what I most appreciate that you usually do (always?) which is
-you make it clear that you're respecting MWD's site and therefore not pushing your own agenda- but that this "way" worked for you.

True, Sometimes I get the feeling you want to push your approach a lot more, but unless I have you confused with someone else who did that, and got deleted, you have refrained from pushing it. You state that it's not her way; it simply is another approach and it worked for you.

You're right in saying we can agree to disagree, but I want to stress that I really do try to follow THIS site's philosophy. I don't raise other approaches here and then go into why THEY are better.

-And you stress the cleaning your own room first as well, which CAN easily get lost around here. There have been people here who jump on the affair bandwagon as soon as they learn of it even if just prior to that discovery, they own up to the fact that oops, maybe they've been lousy partners. The wife who wouldn't sleep with her h for yearS, took ownership of her part in things and THEN discovered an affair and "forgot" about her issues and blasted her 'cheating h" all the way to Timbuktu.

I gave the exact example of the type of behavior that I saw in a personal situation (the FB page for the high school class) & that type of action is what I believe is SO NOT helpful.

I have seen that happen here but I didn't want to get personal about it for obvious reasons, and so, I used a real life (but not identifiable) person's situation to illustrate that point. I stand by that example and the one I just mentioned about the SSM and the A.

But it's not sho's thread I was commenting on, (it is - but it was not the one aimed for) and so I'll go to the correct one.
I think it threw people off --and that's on me.

Mea culpa.