Your situation is not that complicated. Nor is it that unusual.
You need to take in some information and NOT react so fast to it. You misunderstood my question about how you interpreted your wife spending a bit of time with you and then you spun that into something negative.
When I called you on it then you brought up a red herring and said "she told me flat out".
She told you what flat out, that spending time with you was a ruse so she could trick you?
THAT Is what I suggested YOU were getting from her choice to spend time with you, NOT from her previous comments.
I'm referring ONLY to the fact that her spending time with you was something YOU got negative about b/c she did not bring up the BIG FAT underlying issues.
Not everyone wants to talk all the time about THE problems. Sometimes they want to know that they can just BE around you and not feel dragged into an interrogation room.
Now do you get my question?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
