If your long post was addressed to me instead of sho, we can pick back up on my experiences over in my thread, "Train, roll on." That's if you're truly interested instead of just trying to bait.
I don't post a lot there because my M is in piecing now. Because of that, however, I'll continue to share my experiences - and what worked for me - with people on these boards. Are you even familiar with my sitch, 25? I don't recall you ever responding to any of my thread posts.
I respect you and your wisdom and experiences. But I think your tact is quite lacking.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014