How much hurt my actions caused, how angry she is, how she is embarrassed by how many people I talked to, how she feels like I became someone else after BD, how she feels like my family has too much influence. To name a few.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.