Well, I am looking for ways to not be in his "space"...

leaving work early yesterday for example. He wanted to get coffee & sit at work (his little social connection). I grabbed him a coffee, dropped him off at work & left. We don't both need to be there together... all of the time.

I also, ONLY call if absolutely necessary. Even if work related, if its not MAJOR important... I don't call, it can wait. I fill him in when HE calls me.

I don't ask questions about HIS real estate deal or much about his work errands... He offers info.

I don't bring up social subjects to discuss.

I dunno... just things to get off his pant leg!

T2... how?... as long as I love him, it will remain open... but slowly closing it too.


Last edited by makingmagic; 07/24/14 07:02 PM.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)