http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2471264#Post2471264

It looks like my first thread is locked (not sure what that means) so I am starting a new one. Focusing right now on my kids and decided to get back into martial arts if I can find morning classes. I want to be the best dad, friend, son and H possible (although I need my W to end her A before we can discuss being a better H). We have not spoken in a few days, so it will be interesting when she returns on Saturday. The more I think about, the more I realize that she is in a daze/fog and is making very bad decisions due to this A. But, only she can realize that. No one else can tell her.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed