MrBond, I get that I need to not respond to anything that is verbally abusive or making threats. Others have emphasized that I should validate where appropriate. I'm pretty confused. I'm trying to be OK with her being angry. I know the show of anger is important for her. I'm trying to learn everything I can from what she has to say.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.