MrBond,
I get that I need to not respond to anything that is verbally abusive or making threats. Others have emphasized that I should validate where appropriate. I'm pretty confused. I'm trying to be OK with her being angry. I know the show of anger is important for her. I'm trying to learn everything I can from what she has to say.


Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.