Why do I need to get off my high horse? Part of my GAL and 180 is improving my self esteem and self confidence. I've been the spouse who always yielded to my wife. "Yes dear". I never stood up for myself.
I'm not trying to control her or make/tell her how she feels. I'm only trying to change myself.
I am reading DR, btw. (still in the early part of the book)
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!