Thanks Julie, Heather and T2! I'm going to check that book out as soon as I'm done here. When this started, right after B-day, I spent SO much time trying to figure out where I messed up. The things that my W told me were the "reasons" she just MUST get a D and would not even try just didn't make sense! I started to think she had other reasons that she just didn't want to say to spare my feelings. As time went on and the spewing of absolute nonsense kept coming, interspersed with moments of "You were always a great H and father", I started to see something just didn't add up. It wasn't until I found DB and this board that things started to fall into place.
Thanks everyone! Your and everyone's help and just being there is appreciated more than I can say!
