What exactly do I need to understand about my W that I already don't? I already understand how much I've hurt her over the years -- not just with the infidelity, but with the other faults I've listed.
She is using those things as justification for this A. Even without the OM, she would find it very difficult to reconcile with me. With the OM, it's almost impossible.
What else am I missing?
I absolutely condemn my wife's A harder.
- I never threatened to break apart my family. - I never said "I love you" to another woman. - I never called another woman my "soulmate". - I never brought my CHILDREN to meet any of my "lovers" behind my wife's back. - I never said to her, "Hey, honey, I'm coming home from work, then I'm going to spend the night with an escort. Make sure you drop the kids off at school in the morning".
I don't need to be a moral authority to know what's morally wrong about what is CURRENTLY going on.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
