I just wondered about how to respond when he is STILL blaming/comparing to me for his problems. How to fix my response/reaction to what he still feels is true, for him. Thanks for pointing that it takes two to argue... It just bugs me that he gets to feel that way (my fault) and I don't get to respond...
Why respond? What is the point? Would you argue with an insane person and hope to make them sane????
If you MUST respond, do it silently in your head.
But why waste the mental energy, and physical oxygen, responding?? All your "responding" has gotten you absolutely nowhere in 2 years.
There are lots of times in adult life that you DON'T get to respond, or have your say, or make your point.
That is just reality, accept it. Be an adult.
And you know what? He doesn't deserve your response.
He's an a$$hat.
Don't just drop the rope, freaking throw it ALL back to him and run....
IMO.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
