sooo W wants to move in with her parents because she cant afford the house, wants to get her stuff and either I take the rest or she will throw it all away, seems like she wants to erase the last 15 years. Instead of reading into WHY she is doing this^^, be glad she's not taking it all for herself. That may seem like small comfort, but it really is a common thing we see around here. And you have to stop seeing every act in as negative a light as possible. This^^ is a good example of you seeing an action many would see as at least slightly positive, and you turning it into something worse.
I know you are hurt deeply. But you can make things worse, and that's what ^^this does. So, just a gentle reminder to try not to worsen things.
She wants to rent the house out because its too big for her and she is scared at night...her mom bends over backwards to help her. Not sure if you resent her mother helping her, and or if you are mocking her fears, but this ^^ commentary confuses me. I don't get why you're mad about it.
I guess you're just upset that she wants to leave the house, but if she cannot afford it, then this makes financial sense, right?
On a good note I have my entrance exam on Friday for FPL, full time career job. hope I land it!!!
I hope the exams went well and that you find work that is fulfilling. That will help you in many ways. The better we feel about ourselves, the better DBing we do and the better DBing we do, the better we feel about ourselves and then,
the better partners we become. Yes it's all connected.
Good luck.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
