Sandi2

Thanks for the clarification. I did notice her body language change throughout the meal. Though, the only reason I noticed her foot direction was because I was surprised by the table choice, and how she let me break her physical boundaries. I hadn't been looking for it, just a friend of mine brought it up a couple days before, and I looked down and noticed.

Question
Does the WAW in an A journey parallel the stages of MLC?

Also, my W was bringing up all these 180's she had been making. Getting promoted at work, kicking a bunch of pills the Dr's had her on, not working at night. I know I shouldn't be fishing for signs, but in our past relationship that would be her looking for me to acknowledge her changes.

I was thinking about shooting her an email later today acknowledging the changes and telling her that I know it is hard and I am proud of her. Do you guys think that is a good idea? Or should I just keep on no-contact?

Again, I really appreciate the guidance from everyone here.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015