He has always been close with his dad. They do side jobs together. When I met him he wasn't as close as he used to be, and that distance grew and grew until H walked out the door. He has since reconnected with them in a huge way.
As a result of the previous years, I am not close with them AT ALL. not unfriendly, by any means, but no relationship to speak of. They have never made contact with me in any way since he left. That is hurtful, but knowing his mom, it's just easier to avoid an uncomfortable situation altogether.
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
