Yes, that sounds stressful. What kind of R does your h have with his Dad? We've had many stressors the last few years but I remember I was surprised at how devastated h was when my Dad died. He was literally in an inconsolable state which at the time I thought was because he felt bad for me and the kids. Probably a little of that although several things h said later indicated my dad's death really affected HIM.
I hate to admit it, however the high road can be a challenge. However, once decide to respond vs react and try to do what's right (even though that can be confusing too-or at least to me:-), it does get easier.
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
