I was talking through the situation with one of my friends and he pointed out a behavior that the W was showing.
First, when we sat down she found a flaw on my face (a straight hair on my beard and asked if she could pull it). From what I can tell this is what is called a "neg" to break down confidence and pull the power of the conversation towards her.
Later that night, when she came into a party I was at, she grabbed one of my friends and had him "summon me". I promptly ignored that and continued the conversation I was in.
Question to the board. Does anyone else see these behaviors in their WAW / WAS? I am learning more and more every day about body language, and things like a "neg". It is helping me to better understand that games that the W would play with me. I was hoping that someone had more perspective.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
