That take care of wifes needs above...that is NOT a backslide. I simply treat her no different ..."as if" I just , as part of 180 do more around the house. I make no mention of those things. I ask for nothing in return. She does offer as of late. She also asks almost daily now, what my plans are for the day/about work, after work...any plans for rest of week. Etc. should something come up...friends in town, I tell her the day of once I decide what I want to do. Right now, that includes taking the 10year old with. No big deal. What can I do, other than above, to make the PorD dynamic more obvious to her? I rarely slip on the non pursuit, but also want to be compassionate and caring as to not appear checked out. Detach is a balancing act when you live in the same home.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
