MLP nailed it. There is nothing you can do to change the pace of their journey. Patience is hard for all of us. Be consistent, do your 180's. GAL and keep a PMA.
You'll get through this
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015