Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
There is a lot of things not right here, ox.

She's still having an A, just so you are clear. She is spending majority of her time with him. She rushes to be with him. She moved out of your bedroom while she was here ( this was not out of respect for you)

If she was done with him, she would just be done with him. Even if it's not ohysical ( and I truly believe it still is ). Then it's and EA.

And if you are cool with being in an open M, then that's one thing.

I feel for your kids. Watching their dad peruse their mom while she is in an active Affair. It must be so confusing to them.

And she is indeed in an active affair.

It's your life you do as you chose, but your time would be much better spent mainly focusing on you and D 16 and not perusing W.

Just my two cents.


I was offered by a forensic pathologist customer if mine to do a Semen Analysis of her undergarments
Not sure if I want to do this.

On the other hand I am
Not pursuing her anymore.

I have realized it just gets me anxious when I do not like the response

She says she left the bedroom for her own mind. She does not want to be in a bed with any man at this time. I really don't think it was done out of disrespect.