Thx Peter . Your right she is still home . Im a terrible person for the glass being half empty . I do for my own sanity have to live in the moment and keep the glass half full . I worry alot about the future and I likely project that out there . So the remedy for that is to live in the moment , correct ? I worry day to day about whether she is gonna leave . The end of the month is coming again , so I wonder ? but I havent seen any evidence pointing towards a move . But then again thats not living in the moment thats worrying about something that may not happen .
That being said Pete , If your wife was still at home how would you use that to your advantage ?? You say you wish she was still home , so how would that make your sitch better? What are steps I can employ to keep her there ?
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
