I'm confused as to why you are even entertaining the idea of going on dates with your wife or being physical with her when she is still at the very least spending time with OM. Are you comfortable in an open marriage?
It is very strange to me the way you question her about what she is doing with OM while you also pursue her. It seems very self-destructive to me.
Why have you not set a boundary with your W wrt her still seeing OM and also having friendship with you? ?
He leaves in about two weeks. She has told him to not come back, she does not want him to put her through this turmoil, she can't miss work, she can't miss time with her son.
S21 is moving home with his fiancée due to a job in NYC....
I just did not want to loose any connection we have...
I did tell her I could not go to the gym on the weekends with her while he is here.
She rushes me so that she can get to him by whatever time was set...
The reason is because if she's late she says there is always an " altercation"
Thing is she complains to me that we have worked out together for 30 years...told her I am not your " personal trainer" I am your husband...
