"I confronted her and asked if she had no shame. "
Who made you the moral authority especially after the things you had done?
I mean at least she was honest with you and said that she wants to be with the OM. And you continually minimize your role in all of this and choose to concentrate on what YOU think she is doing wrong. It's controlling. You didn't give a damn about her before. Why do you think that what she's doing is wrong and you were right? Just because you had an "epiphany" about your situation with the MULTIPLE affairs you had, doesn't mean that she has to suddenly fall in love with you again.
If her ONE affair is driving you crazy, how do you think your MULTIPLE ones affected her?
You still sweep things under the rug.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.