Ok so update.. everythings going really good. Shes booked a holiday without me knowing and has told me we are both going. I dont know where it is atm and im so excited. Things are on the up..
One slight problem.. im not happy with the outfits shes picking.. shes buying shorts.. which is out of character for her. I know what people are going to say and im just going to restate... its out of character for her.. we are going to be right by a beach so i guess its ok right..
It's not your place to judge. You have to let her be her. Focus on what you can control and that's you. And if the clothes are nice, enjoy the view and compliment her on her choices.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
You mentioned shorts. Why aren't you happy about her wearing shorts? Are there any other outfits you disapprove of? Why don't you like them?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
"One slight problem.. im not happy with the outfits shes picking.. shes buying shorts.. which is out of character for her. I know what people are going to say and im just going to restate... its out of character for her.. we are going to be right by a beach so i guess its ok right.."
Wow you REALLY haven't learned anything have you? You still have the same control issues that drove her away in the first place. What EXACTLY have you changed?
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You mentioned shorts. Why aren't you happy about her wearing shorts? Are there any other outfits you disapprove of? Why don't you like them?
Because its revealing and slutty. Yeah clothes that reveal cleavage. I dont like em because they are revealing and slutty.. who she trynna impress?
@ mrbond - i have changed trust me i have. But i just feel its unfair. And some things she should listen to me about.. im her husband.. im sure theres women out there that always listen to their husband.. this bitch dont even respect me or my wishes..
1Wish. Maybe it was out of character what she was wearing before. Maybe she always wore what you approved of, or thought that you would approve of, but to hell with that now.
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you have got to be kidding me. shorts? you're against shorts? you're going on a trip with your wife who decided to stay and make it work and you're complaining about shorts?
you have got to be kidding me. shorts? you're against shorts? you're going on a trip with your wife who decided to stay and make it work and you're complaining about shorts?
I can't even...
its out of character.. she never used to wear revealing clothes..
