What do YOU want vis a vis the house? What's best for the kids, given the situation?
(When I say "given the situation", I mean to avoid carping about the WAS's actions. We KNOW you don't like what is going on but there's no point in rehashing that, right? Not that you were, but I'm just heading it off at the pass. You'd be surprised how many people begin with "I WANT my spouse to change back!" and there's no point in going there. We get it).
What matters is what you CAN do, & what you WANT to do, given the situation.
So, what is that?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016