Thanks FY- I ended up bringing it up much like you suggested.
He was talking about all the things he needs to work on for new business and I said- " hey by the way, if you need it you can stay in S19's room for a bit until you get on your feet"". He said thanks he may have to stay with someone, either me or friends. I said just let me know. And then we went on to other topics at hand for upcoming kids activities.
He's pretty stressed lately with all the potential changes and figuring out finances- seems to be back in withdrawal a bit. I'm hoping that the lack of choice on having to stay somewhere- which might be at our home- doesn't set him back. But as my DBing has taught me, I can't control that smile
I'll just keep living and helping him where and when I can. I know he sees that I am a constant in the midst of his spinning- the lighthouse on the rock is shining brightly!!


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown