Saving my marriage by focusing on ME!

[25yearsmlc]

I was told by an outside source that when WW says to me " how are You" or texts it to me ( which she tends to do every few days) that I should reply with;

" My wife has a boyfriend"
In a calm relaxed kind of flat affect type of tone.

Opinions?

I have my own but I am curious what the more experienced DBers and even Newcomers think...

I would love to know what former WW's think of that comment.

Thanks
Ox

I don't care what "tone" you use texting (TEXTING tone??) it's a comment designed to shame her ---and it's STILL ALL about OM!

I'd say "i'm fine! I'm busy going to new fascinating places, meeting new interesting people and doing new, exciting things. Gotta go, bye"



Make it about YOUR LIFE and yours alone. IN FACT, I'd make that comment ^^ my voice mail message