Also, I'm pretty sure I know the answer, because I'm planning on not asking my W, but she claims that this is not a decision between the OM and me. But by choosing to remain in contact with the OM, she is losing me. So isn't she making that choice?
Why are you in such a rush? You only sent your email a couple of weeks ago. It's going to take time for it to sink in. Just keep up the going dark. It may take longer than you think. Stop obsessing about her and her choices. Continue your great work at GAL and self improvement. You're a good man and a H only a fool would leave. At least you're getting there. Keep it up, Dev.
PS Don't listen to your MIL. She's probably getting one side of the story from her D who is totally confused and not thinking straight. So any advice from MIL is deeply skewed.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
