Gotcha. You ARE strong. However, I do understand your feelings. I think you can say, " h, I'm not ready to visit right now. I hope you understand ". Maybe something simple and honest. It's for you and it sounds like you don't need to see him right now. You can be pleasant yet firm. And get back to living:-)

Last edited by Georgiabelle; 07/24/14 01:44 AM.

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BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
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