KGirl - post-move

[KGirl]

Georgiabelle, I just spoke with a friend and her advice was just give a head's up but don't justify/rationalize with anything like "I'll be solely responsible, blah blah" because that might bring things to mind that he otherwise wouldn't be worried about... so I think your approach makes sense.

Vossy - Hmm. Well, I guess that will require a bit of mind-reading... my sense is that it wouldn't occur to him that I'd still be liable for his loan or that I'd be notified because he wouldn't research it (or that even if it did, it wouldn't matter because he'd pay all of it) and therefore wouldn't see any reason to tell me. And then I could see myself getting a notice in the mail and thinking "wth is this from??"... so I'm just trying to be considerate so he doesn't wonder what the heck it is when he's notified from the lender.