No need to ask for h's opinion. You need a car so you have decided to purchase a car. If you feel it necessary , you could say "H, I'm purchasing a car and you may be notified of the loan, just wanted to give you a head's up". That should be sufficient.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer