Saving my marriage by focusing on ME!

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Mmmm, my gut would be that will make him seem nice. Be nice ox, read my thread in new commers, I was nice and I scared a little old lady into hiding.

Be nice, be the bigger human it's more fun by far. Being ok nice and normal is not what Ww and families who support them expect or want. They want you harping, they want you acting badly hurt etc do not give them the power to choose for you. Truely.

So I made her and s16 dinner etc, she's telling me all these plans for us.

She makes me a cup of tea I lean in to kiss her cheek and she pulls away and does uh uh, not on the mood.

So I think of the other night when she said she's " monogamous" so I said oh I guess still monogamous but to other man, she said no asexual to everyone ( I get anxious about the pulling away because she kept kissing and hugging me on Monday and last night she went to dinner with OM and got home pretty late.

So I looked at her and she said Ox we were in public we were not even holding hands...

So stupid dumb arse me said yes but I'm sure you gave him a nice kiss good night , she says I don't want to discuss this.

So I told her remember what the MC said I can ask you questions to make sure we both honor the boundaries we set.

Her reply...there you go again with the higher authority....

My MC said she says this as does OM because they are acting like to teenagers...

I just have to walk away from her when she tempts me...

It just really hurts when one day she's all over me and the next she rejects me...