Artsy,

I'm a little confused. Was he giving you the money generated from the rental? And is he saying he will no longer give you that $? I know he is supporting you financially during your career transition. I just wasn't clear of this was a reduction in funds or a btw type statement. I do think (and you do too it appears) h is still a lost soul right now.

Here are my thoughts. You told h you were not going to be his friend. It may be best for you to enforce that boundary for your well being. You can be friendly and also make yourself busy if he drops by. Has he actually done this yet or is it more talk from h?

Keep it light, cordial and stay busy. And I think dark would be tough in your sitch and dim may be a better fit. Just my 2 cents:-)


Last edited by Georgiabelle; 07/23/14 11:32 PM.


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