I would just say happy birthday and see how he responds. I sent my H a text on his birthday, but considering we were actually separated at that point I may not be the best person to ask.

Now I"m off to go have fun with friends who aren't close. Have a good evening!!


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.