WAW having an A but she denies it

[shodan]

Wow. Thanks for sharing that. How long after you confronted her about the A and when you finally said what you said?

Given this is still early for me, I assume I stay the course.

And I know the answer to my next question, but I need to ask. She told me she confided in one of her friends about wanting a divorce. It sounds like her friend was comforting and of course sided with her. But, I know her friend would have a different view if they knew about the A. Especially since she knows this guy from college as well and did not like him. He treated my W poorly back then and cheated on her all of the time. I was not going to call out the A to her friend, but perhaps mention to her that there are two sides to all stories and that she might have a different view if she knew the full story.