Fair point.

Thinking ahead a bit, but what if she never admits to the A? My W comes back Sat but heads back to NYC T-W next week (which I assume will be extended by a day or two). She then is in NYC the following week for a few days. I cannot stop that, I know. Do I just stay the course, stay patient and continue to work on myself and be the best dad that I can be?


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed