Oh thank you all for such positive advice. I feel much better now than I did when H left tonight.

I think I will try and get some legal sdvice before next Wednesday so at I will have some idea where I stand financially in terms of the house etc.

You are all right in what you are telling me and ss06 that makes so much sense about H expecting a reaction from me regarding the ow, He would have totally expected me to slate her.

I do have the db book do you think I may be too late for this?

Thanks again for the great advice
Stacey x


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014