I am learning how to listen more closely to H's needs and see what i can do to make changes that will support him better. I'm conflicted. On one hand I wonder if trying to be there for him, being available to listen, to engage in general talk and show him that I care, that I appreciate him, his efforts, etc... is showing him the changes I am making, etc. but on the other hand is it hovering? Needy? Pursuing? How can I be emotionally supportive without hovering and pursuing?
