Stacey he knows you don't want a D. But You can always say "H I don't want a D, but I won't stop you". In reality divorces are only needed to be initiated by one person and there is no stopping it. Act happy, don't let him see you sweat.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”