Good call. There will be a time and a place for each of those (or something similar).
I've got a million of 'em. Another favorite: "You don't get to tell me how I'm supposed to feel about this." (alt. version, which I used when she was P*SSED about a heartfelt -- but direct -- long handwritten letter our D-then-18 left her): "You don't get to tell (D18) how she gets to feel about this."
