You've got this pretty well pegged Mach. I just need to keep listening and validating when she goes off about my May and June actions and my prior failures. If she gets mean and nasty about it, then I draw the line and walk away, so that I don't blow up too. Then I have to not take the bait when she says "yeah, just walk away in the middle of a conversation." That's how she gets me back in. I need to figure out what to do this weekend. She wants me to go somewhere to give her space. Not a bad idea, but I have nowhere worth going. I really want to make these changes for me. No matter what happens with her, I need to be a better man.
Me: 34 W:33 T: 10 M: 6 S: 6 D: 5 BD: 5/14 Still together(ish) Not giving up: 7/14 D talk has slowed, a lot. Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms. Slow and Steady wins the race.
